closetquean | a cuckquean

by Denial-Switch-Quean

Do you want your woman to be your proud lust filled Cuckquean?

Do you want her to seek out and bring other women to your bed for you both to enjoy? 

Do you want her to get wet at the idea of your hard cock sliding between the wet slick folds of another woman? For her clit to throb and pulse as she sucks your cock before feeding it directly into the cake’s deep cunt? 

Mmmm yes, of course you do. ;-)

This “How To” guide is concerned with cuckqueaning as a particular type of submissive. A variation on a theme, if you will. Of course you can be submissive and not be a cuckquean. You can be a submissive and not give over control of your orgasms to your dominant. You can be a submissive and in a completely monogamous relationship with your partner. You can also be a cuckquean and not be submissive. This guide is not then for you.

This guide is for those who want to cultivate a cuckquean dynamic in your relationship with your submissive. It is intended as a way to expand the repertoire of an already established D/s dynamic and is premised on the notion the woman does not yet know she is a cuckquean. There are, of course, other pathways to the cuckquean dynamic and identity. This is one proven in its effectiveness and offers one avenue towards home growing your very own satisfied and devoted submissive cuckquean:

Love

Control

Correlation

Conditioning

Service

Reward

Step one - Love: Make sure she feels loved and secure in your connection. A loved and secure partner is a giving partner. Kiss and touch her often. Remind her how beautiful she is in your eyes. Tell her you love her and spoon her each night. This is the foundation necessary for the adventures you want to have together.

Step two - Control: Control her orgasms. This is an essential training and conditioning tool. Get her to agree to only orgasm when you give her permission. At first let her orgasm frequently but over time use the power of her orgasm to build her devotion to you. She cums when she has pleased you. Require that she edge often. If she isn’t stirring her desire three times a day then she isn’t staying as connected to you as you want her to be. Tell her that when she feels that deep desire then she is wholly yours. If you need to be convinced of the power of orgasm control/denial please read: 

https://female-orgasm-denial.tumblr.com/post/138732669598/orgasm-denial-is-a-huge-turn-on-for-me-and-ive

Because @female-orgasm-denial has made a most excellent case for denial and its inherent benefits in a D/s dynamic.

Step three - Correlation: Tie her pleasure to you and your pleasure. Once control is firmly established - require that all or at least most (an occasional exception is good for morale) of her orgasms happen in your presence only and - of course - only with permission. Reward her for good behavior - when she pleases you she gets to cum. Get her to focus on your orgasm. Encourage her to experience your orgasm as her orgasm. Call for longer and longer periods of denial. Shift from rewarding her with orgasms to rewarding her with edges and your orgasm. This step may take a while but you will know you have arrived when she is hungry for your cum, begs to edge, and thrills to your orgasm. Now your pleasure is her pleasure

Step four - Conditioning: Expand her understanding of your pleasure. You love her. She is beautiful. And it would give you great pleasure to fuck other women with her. Not instead of her - in addition to her. She wants to please you. You want her to feel hot at the idea of sliding your cock into other women. Require that she watch MFF threesome porn while edging. Require she look through certain tumblrs and send you the hottest pictures. When you are fucking her, ask her to name who she would like to see you fuck. When she can name names and describe acts - let her cum as she is saying the other woman’s name. Help her to fetishize your fetish. Tell her who you want to fuck. 

Step five - Service: Have her recruit the cake. It is important she take the lead in the recruitment of the cake. Certainly conspire together. Who is hot? Who do you want? How to ask? But this needs to be something she does for you. She wants to please you. Your quean wants to know that you are fucking the cake because she, your quean, set it up. The power of pleasing you is now everything. Deny her orgasms certainly - but don’t deny her the pleasure of bringing you cake. Allow her to provide this service. Let it be her domain. Also - reward her at each successful step towards cake. 

Step six - Reward: Tie her pleasure to cake. It’s simple. You are the focus of her desire. She cums only when you allow it. She edges whenever she may. You want cake. She brings you cake. She gets to cum. Make sure she is only allowed to cum when she has brought you cake (or made significant progress toward) and you will have a devoted, lust-filled woman who slides your cock into other women. Then shower her with love and appreciation. She is a good submissive cuckquean and the perfect partner for you. You so look forward to who she brings home next… . then put her back on full time orgasm denial, edge her, love her, cum in her, and look forward to her next orgasm.

And if all goes well - she will learn how to cum as you cum in the cake. Because your pleasure is her pleasure - you are one and it is beautiful.